If you’re in a romantic relationship, you’re together enough as it is… why on earth would you need to sleep together too?? Give it a rest!
Who wants to have to worry about waking somebody up when you move around or sneeze or have to go take a piss? Just nonsense.
Besides, different people need different sleeping conditions… for example, I have to use a heated blanket a lot because I get cold. That’s perfect for me but it could suck for someone else in bed with me.
The expectation of sleeping together in romantic relationships is pure garbage and it’s dreadful. It makes life suck. People need to be free with each other. Sleep where you want… be around or don’t. I’ll see you whenever.
from SECTUAL – Discussion Forum http://www.sectual.com/thread-1042.html